Tuesday, October 07, 2014
One night stand and stay and stay
This has happened to every gay man who had what started as a trick become less than a treat.
And perhaps straights too.
It captures perfectly that post fuck aversion that almost everyone has.
Even for spouses sometime. Who never go "home". Not that this has ever happened to me.
Labels: gay culture, gay fun
Assumed names
This week, Facebook reversed its policy and allowed people to use "drag names".
There had been a big fuss over this.
Ellen De Generis explains.
Well, a Facebook VP explains.
Drag names are a funny thing even to gay men and if you want to snicker, please do so, because that is the whole point.
A drag queen is for fun in the first place and while there is no one who takes themselves more seriously, it is all about fun and if you are laughing the drag queen is very happy. It is not bigotry. This is one area where gay and straight people can come together. And Queens will absolutely love it.
Of course, Ellen can get away with this. Any het would be kicked in the ass for the same thing.
Labels: gay fun, gay identity
Sunday, April 27, 2014
White out
Today is the annual, the 22d Annual White Party. Well, the weekend.
It is very quiet this year. Good.
I suppose there will be fireworks tonight or tomorrow if they are running Monday which is bad for Booker but we know how to handle that. Get in the car and ride around. Or just cover his ears.
We once decided to attend one of these, known as "circuit parties". We were not on the circuit but still had it in mind sort of. It took us a long time to get over our late coming out. We worried we were missing all the fun.
We were in Miami, or maybe it was South Beach, when theirs ran and so we bought tickets. Not cheap. Then, we realized that the party was going to take place late at night. And it was hard to get to. And when we faced reality we knew it was just the wrong place for us. So we didn't go.
I visit our local Party vicariously. I watch my friend John prepare for attending. The workouts, the looksism. John is a nice guy. He does not need this. But maybe he does. He is hot as the hinges of hell (is that hot enough) and his partner is older whatever that means. I never met him. So he attends as both a partier and arm candy. Who am I to judge?
Besides, tomorrow morning but probably Tuesday, I am going to get the lowdown on the party and how it went for him. Not long. Just between sets. How he and I communicate.
I have to say that I do not know one guy who is in recovery who goes. Those days are over and it is too much for most people. We do not even have anyone visiting our Meetings from this event. Usually when there is a big gay function in town we get several guys who are visiting. Not for sober people, really.
The Party is right over there on the other side of the trees at the Convention Center. It is hard to ignore but actually I only heard the disco drumbeat once today for awhile. It is windy here and so it is probably blowing in the right direction.
Fun? I think not. All those people!
Labels: gay fun
Thursday, March 28, 2013
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
FUNNY FOOTBALL
Guy Branum tells those SF Forty Niners where they live.
No. You don't need any background to see this.
You don't even need to be gay although it is funnier that way.
And you sure as fuck don't need to live in SFO because all of us gay people, "the gays" live in SFO even if we don't live there.
Labels: gay culture, gay fun, sports
HA HA HA
Faux News Uses Lesbian Couples Wedding for Straight Bigot's PresentationI always thought there was a mole in the Fox News Room. Or somewhere in the infrastructure.
This kind of happy bonehead accident happens too often.
Time for Ailes to conduct a purge?
Labels: gay fun, gay marriage, gay rights
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
UNEXPECTED
Another unexpected day. Our 2PM financial guy called to bail out as he had a medical emergency. Well, something he was worried about and the doc would only see him at our time.
OK with me. And he said he "wouldn't be any good" if he had gotten a later time at the doc as he is worried.
Me too. I wouldn't want him under stress. Then I couldn't add any.
Not that I intend to.
We will get together next week at 2PM. Same deal.
I am prepared. One of the benefits of having a postponement.
Tom Lehrer from my college years. He was prophetic. Solicit for your sister, indeed.
Tom was gay as a goose and could be found in various gay bars when I was there. A nice guy. An icon to students in the Fifties. We were getting ready for the Sixties.
Labels: fun, gay fun, life, music
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Friday, June 08, 2012
CROSSWALK
This is Gay Pride month all over and LA, of course, is no exception. Actually, North Hollywood or Boystown.
Here is a delightful embellishment the city provided for the parades and all that will be going on.
Labels: gay fun
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Thursday, March 08, 2012
SIX MOTHS IN APT #7
Stop it and look. Slide it along. A lot of fun in this.
There is even some gay makeout toward the end.
Labels: gay fun
Thursday, November 03, 2011
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Friday, May 13, 2011
SOME SHIT CAME DOWN
On Blogger.
That kind of shit. The site was down.
A lot of posts were lost. They were down for uploads for two days. Two days!
Some people lost a lot of postings. I lost nothing.
It turns out that some of those blogs were gay blogs.
Gay paranoia says that the whole thing was a plot to de-gay blogger.
Unlikely. Everyone knows that Blogger is about the gayest web site that there is after Tumblr. If you took "the gays" off it, it would not exist.
Anyway, all my stuff is there. I don't post porn although I am thinking of it. I would get a lot more traffic if I did.
Labels: blog, blogging, gay fun
Monday, April 25, 2011
HUNKY JESUS CONTEST
This is so sacreligously hilarious that it has to be shown.
NSFC=Not Safe For Church.
Labels: gay fun
