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The world of the internet has let us have a wide variety of experiences we have never had before.

One of these broad areas is pornography.

There is a ton of soft and hard core stuff available. And then there are the fringes.

This is the subject of the James Franco produced film

Kink (2014)

Fetish films. Mostly BDSM, gay and straight. Produced by a group in San Francisco whose name says it all. Kink.com.

I am a customer of a couple of their sites.

Yup.

It is a fascinating tour of the place and the people and, to some extent, how it is done. Safely and consensually.

There is nothing prurient about watching the scenes being done. Maybe.

All I can say is that it was done way to soon and that I learned a whole lot that I did not know about the business, the art of porn and myself.

See, in the end of it, porn plays to the mind. And these people understand that very well.

I liked this. It is a 4 out of Netflix5. I would not mind seeing it again. I won't buy it because it is just bits and pieces of the films themselves and, as usual, talking about sex is kinda counterproductive.

Labels: films, gay films, pornography

I spent considerable time this morning on my DVD library.

The gay one. Not the other stuff.

I am not sure why I did this as the discs are all stored nicely in one of those binders with envelope pages and are easily accessible.

I guess I just like to list shit.

They are not even in alphabetical order because that makes no sense to the problem a list will solve.

Namely, what do I have and where is it in the big DVD album?. I can use "find" to locate it in the list and then go get the disc.

The other thing is that it fulfills my occasional need to get the fuck organized.

It almost does not matter what is getting organized. It just the process of doing it. Somehow more moral and upright. More systematic. Less random in my doings.

But the fact is that when I pick out a DVD to play, it is on a whim. I have no Netflix to watch or I am sick of the straight sensibility. Or I really need some down and dirty gay sex.

Actually never the latter. For down and dirty gay sex there are the web sites which play even the nastiest pornography, often at no cost, but usually with a small fee which makes it seem less indulgent. Like going to a prostitute. The fact that I am paying for it, well, I don't know. I never went to a prostitute.

These films in my library are not really porn anyway. They even include a few NPR classics. It is just that they are gay and that is where they belong. In a file of their own. Like us. You know that I am doubtful about assimilation and this is one reason. If it is inconvenient for DVDs it is even more so with people who look alike gay or straight. It helps to know where they live. Like Palm Springs. 40% chance, basic.

I have very few nongay DVDs. Mostly a few comedy collections. An old movie or 2.

There is really point buying DVDs as long as they are available from Netflix and I believe that Netflix will endure everything. Even if the disc dies, they will have on line films. And if they don't someone else will. Amazon has a decent collection.

But the gay DVDs are evanescent. They make a bunch of them and that is it. Get 'em while they're hot.

Erotica does not bear a lot of repeating either artful or soft pornographic.

Labels: DVD, pornography